Q: I've heard the advice that you need to learn how to get yourself off by masturbating. So let's get down to the real nitty-gritty. It's just that nothing ever feels that amazing, and I give up. Spend a couple of weeks exploring a number of different techniques. Keep switching back and forth until you notice that one of the strokes feels better than the other. We're always hearing that we could be having better sex , a better orgasm, or a better relationship.
Sylvia. Age: 20.
Try two to four strokes each time you practice, and compare and contrast them to each other.
Angelique. Age: 22.
How To Masturbate, Female Style: 8 Steps To Having Orgasms (Without a Vibrator)
It sounds like you're not opposed to masturbating, but that you may still have some conflicting feelings about it. I've been asked this question by almost every female client I've ever had, and it's such a popular topic that I've even created an entire online course called Finishing School , which is dedicated to teaching women how to masturbate. Women who find themselves particularly hesitant may want to ask themselves questions like, "Where did these feelings about masturbation come from?